A bride-centred song circle

Manmohan Singh Dau’s encyclopedia article describes suhag as a wedding-song form centred on the bride. Women from the household, kin, neighbours and friends gather in the evenings before the wedding. Their songs voice wishes for a good marriage alongside affection for the parental home and anxiety about leaving it. Parents and daughter can appear as speakers within the verses. Dau discusses the father’s economic and social constraints, the mother’s sorrow at departure and blessings for the daughter’s new life. The group’s singing gives these different family positions a shared occasion for expression, without making every verse a literal statement by the bride herself. His account also mentions dholki accompaniment.[1]

Memory and leading the group

Sarvar Kahlon and Phillip Cartwright’s 2021 conference paper includes an interview with folklore scholar Indra Virk. She describes leadership in women’s song sessions as depending on memory, voice and the ability to bring others into the performance. An older woman may lead, but youth does not rule someone out. This account makes participation a matter of remembered repertoire and practical skill, rather than an automatic consequence of age alone.[2]

A Manchester performance case

The same paper discusses Surinder Kaur and her daughter performing at Manchester’s Free Trade Hall in August 1993. In the authors’ account, Kaur demonstrated an older manner of singing a mother-and-daughter suhag before explaining why she and her sister had made a brighter rendition for audiences. The researchers describe changes in pace, accompaniment and vocal presentation. They also observe that the words about separation could retain their sadness within the altered musical setting. This is a particular example of a song moving between family repertoire and a public performance. The analysis distinguishes the singer’s intended presentation from how the song’s emotional subject might be received.[2]

Sources & notes

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  1. Manmohan Singh Dau; Publication Bureau, Punjabi University, Patiala. ਸੁਹਾਗ — signed Bal Vishvakosh article ↗independently signed university encyclopedia article · Source date: 2014-01-17 (online posting; print date not established) · Locator: Aggregate page, first block headed ਸੁਹਾਗ, source Bal Vishvakosh (Bhasha, Sahit ate Sabhyachar), signature ਮਨਮੋਹਨ ਸਿੰਘ ਦਾਉਂ, posting 17 January 2014; gathering, kinship dialogue and dholki passages only. Accessed 2026-11-01.Only the first Bal Vishvakosh article signed Manmohan Singh Dau is selected. Its author line and posting date were inspected. Adjacent dictionaries and other signed works are excluded; no origin date is inferred.Return to Script form 1 ↑Return to A bride-centred song circle, paragraph 1 ↑
  2. Sarvar Kahlon and Phillip Cartwright; SongOrigins conference, Newcastle University, 14–16 September 2021. Investigating Traditional Punjabi Wedding Songs: A Content Analysis of the Suhag in the Presentational Context ↗scholarly conference paper · Source date: 2021 · Locator: Author-uploaded conference transcript: title/conference details lines 51–83; Indra Virk interview lines 535–551; Surinder Kaur ManchesterAugust 1993 performance analysis lines 599–632. Accessed 2026-11-01.The actual author-uploaded transcript’s Indra Virk interview and Manchester performance analysis were inspected. Direct local download returned 403. No recording was auditioned; borrowed Nahar and Schreffler passages are not used.Return to Memory and leading the group, paragraph 1 ↑Return to A Manchester performance case, paragraph 1 ↑
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